"Grace That Came Looking For Me"

Published on January 25, 2026 at 7:00 AM

“We love Him, because He first loved us.” — 1 John 4:19 (KJV)

Before you ever reached for God… God was reaching for you. Prevenient grace is the grace that goes before, the grace that shows up first. It’s God moving toward you while you’re still figuring life out. It's God protecting you when you didn’t even know what to call it. It's God nudging your heart before you ever had the words to pray. It’s the mercy that kept you even when you weren’t looking to be kept.

When I look back over my life, I can name moments I thought were just “luck,” or “timing,” or “just barely making it.” But now I see them differently.  A door that didn’t open, I later  realized it would’ve broken me. A relationship that ended, I later saw how God spared me. A detour that frustrated me, I later understood it redirected me. A quiet inner nudge that said: “Don’t go.” “Call her.” “Apologize.” “Try again.”  I couldn’t explain why… I just knew. That’s prevenient grace.

Prevenient Grace is God’s love showing up in advance. It's God setting the table before you even arrive hungry. It’s God putting a hand on your life long before you put your life in His hands. Honestly, that kind of grace humbles me because it means my story didn’t start with my decision, it started with His pursuit.

Prevenient grace is like porch lights coming on before you pull into the driveway. You didn’t flip the switch. You didn’t earn the welcome. But someone saw you coming. Someone made a way for you to find the door. Someone lit the steps so you wouldn’t trip in the dark. That’s what God does. He turns the light on through a praying grandmother, a timely sermon, a stranger’s kindness, a moment of conviction, a near-miss that made you rethink, a whisper in your spirit that said, “There’s more.” Prevenient grace is the light that finds you while you’re still finding your way.

Prevenient grace changes how we live because it reminds us we are not here by accident. God has been at work longer than we realize. Our turning points didn’t start with us, God was already drawing us. Even our “almost” moments were mercy: protection with purpose. God’s patience is grace, and the time He gave us to grow was love. He was with us even when we didn’t know it.

If you’re praying for someone you love, your child, your spouse, your family member, prevenient grace is hope. God is working on them before they ever admit they need Him. He is drawing their heart in ways you cannot see.

Take a quiet moment and reflect:

1. Where can I see God’s hand “going before” me in my past?

2. What was I spared from that I didn’t recognize as mercy at the time?

3. What nudges has God been giving me lately that I keep postponing?

4. Who am I praying for and how can I trust God’s grace to reach them first?

Prayer:

Father, thank You for prevenient grace. The grace that pursued me, protected me, and prepared the way for me. Thank You for the doors You closed, the detours You allowed, and the quiet warnings You whispered. Thank You for the people You placed in my path and the moments You used to draw my heart toward You.

Lord, help me to recognize Your voice and respond quickly. Go before the ones I love who are not close to You right now. Draw them gently. Protect them wisely. Surround them with reminders of Your love.

I trust Your pursuit. I trust Your timing. I trust Your grace.

In Jesus’ name,

Amen.

God’s grace went before me. God’s mercy has been tracking my steps.

I am not lost,I am being led.